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אִישׁוּת
Marriage 8
Sefer Nashim · What a stated condition does when the world fails to match it, why a private willingness cannot rescue a kiddushin that the words did not make, and the one claim whose truth sits where no witness can reach
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Weight given to what a party privately intended and never said aloud
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Word, only, that turns a valid kiddushin into nothing at all
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Torah, Prophets and Writings, for a man who claims to be a reader
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Mishnah, Sifra, Sifre and Tosefta, for a man who claims to be a sage of the Mishnah
Part 1A condition spoken, and a world that does not match it
- Every mismatch voids, in both directions. Consecration with a cup said to hold wine that holds honey, or honey that holds wine, a dinar said to be silver that is gold or gold that is silver, a man who stipulated that he is a kohen and is a Levite or that he is a Levite and is a kohen, that he is a Givonite and is a mamzer or the reverse, that he lives in a town and lives in a metropolis or the reverse, that he is poor and is rich or rich and is poor, that his house is near the bathhouse and it is far or far and it is near: in every one of these she is not consecrated. (8:1)
- The domestic terms are graded the same as gold. A stipulation that he has a maidservant, or a daughter who knows how to braid hair, or one who bakes, or a wife and children, falls exactly as the others do when the fact is absent, and it falls equally when he stipulated that he has none of these and it emerges that he does. (8:1)
- The rule has no favoured party. The identical law applies where the woman is the one who supplied the false information, so that the chapter is not protecting either side from a bad bargain but protecting the sentence that was spoken. (8:1)
- Devarim shebalev einam devarim. She is not consecrated even when she says that in her heart she was willing to be consecrated to him despite the deception, and he is likewise not helped by saying that in his heart he was willing to consecrate her despite hers, since matters of the heart are not matters. (8:2)
RememberTwo willing people are told they are not married. A private willingness arriving after the fact cannot manufacture what the words failed to make.
Part 2True, and true exclusively, are two different claims
- Saying less than everything voids nothing. Where he stipulated that he is a perfumer and is a perfumer and a leather craftsman, that he lives in a town and lives in a town and a metropolis, or that his name is Yosef and his name is Yosef and Shimon, she is consecrated, because everything he said was true and he never claimed there was nothing further. (8:3)
- One word reverses each of them. Where he stipulated that his name is only Yosef, that he is solely a perfumer, or that he is solely an inhabitant of a town, and the second name, the second trade or the second residence exists, she is not consecrated. (8:3)
- What a claim of literacy actually costs. A man who stipulates that he knows how to read must read from the Torah and render it according to the translation of Onkelos, one who calls himself a reader must handle Torah, Prophets and Writings with grammatical precision, one who says he can study Mishnah must be able to read the Mishnah, and a sage of the Mishnah must handle Mishnah, Sifra, Sifre and the Tosefta of Rabbi Chiyya. (8:4)
RememberAlmost every accusation of dishonesty is really an accusation about a missing only. The chapter is exact about where that line runs.
Part 3The claim no witness can check, and the error you make alone
- On condition that he is righteous. Even where the man is known to be thoroughly wicked, the kiddushin stands in doubt and she is treated as consecrated, since it is possible that he had thoughts of repentance in his heart at that moment. (8:5)
- And the mirror ruling. Where he stipulated that he is wicked, even if he is known to be entirely righteous, the kiddushin stands in doubt and she is treated as consecrated, since he may have had thoughts of idol worship at that moment, that sin being one for which a person is called wicked on the strength of thought alone. (8:5)
- An assumption is not a condition. A man who consecrated a woman and then says he had thought she was of priestly stock and she is a Levite's daughter, or that he thought her poor and she is rich, or rich and she is poor, is married, for she did not cause him to err; and the same holds where she is the one who says she had assumed something about him. (8:6)
RememberThe heart is inadmissible when it is a private reservation about a public deal, and decisive when the man made his own soul the subject of the condition.