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Presence Over Perfection

Why does the Rambam give a laborer the right to conjugal intimacy twice a week, but a Torah scholar only once a week? And why can a wife say 'I am repulsed by you' and compel a divorce?

Ishut 14-16Friday, April 17, 2026

Presence Over Perfection

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About This Talk

Hilchot Ishut chapters 14-16 lay out the law of conjugal obligation with stunning precision and then demolish any romantic fantasy that marriage transcends the body. A wife who rejects her husband must be released. The law insists that marriage is a covenant between two embodied humans, not a spiritual ideal.